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Showing posts with label reality. Show all posts

Monday, January 11, 2010

Do You Want Security In Life?

Most of us want security in life. We want to know that things are stable and we want to know what's going to happen next. But people who realize the reality of life live peacefully as they know fully that they don't know what's going to happen next. They live in a "don't know" world.

Why? Because they see that that's what's happening anyway, so they just go with it. They realize they're not in charge, and in fact there is no "me" who could be in charge. Life is happening. It's just the nature of life to happen. And we're part of that happening. So it's not even accurate for me to say we can just go with the flow. We're really part of the flow, whether we like it or not. So freedom is actually just seeing that. When you see that, the game of struggle and suffering is over.

Have you noticed that just about the time you think you've got everything in place the way you want it something changes? You lose your job. Or you get an injury or illness. Or someone close to you leaves or dies. Life changes. That's what life is -- change. Without change it would be static and dead. Instead, it's fresh, and alive with change every single moment.

When you see that the awareness that witnesses your thoughts and actions is always free, you can just live in that pure awareness, not knowing or really even caring about what's going to happen next, but just watching. The awareness you are is like a mirror. It sees and reflects everything but isn't affected in any way by the dynamic movements of life. In being simply present it finds fascination with it all. So it's all pleasure. And it's all contentment and a quiet, inner joy.

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Wednesday, December 9, 2009

Listen to the Ancients

Ancient wise people -- those who are called awakened or enlightened -- have all reached the same conclusion: Life is problem-free when you simply see reality as it is. Instead we usually live by our stories. Stories we don't even know are stories until we probe and investigate. Let's say you feel someone has hurt your feelings.

But can that actually happen? Does anyone have the power to reach into your feelings and make you hurt? No, of course not. The reality is that we choose to feel hurt because what that person said or did is important to us; we think we need their approval. But do we? Can we be sure we'd be better off with their approval?

An opinion about us is just an opinion -- their opinion. Can we know that what they said was about us and not just about the bad mood they happened to be in at that moment, for example? When we question it we see that anyone's thought about us are just that -- their thoughts. And their thoughts really have nothing to do with us.

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